The thingy in the attached picture looks very dry on the insulator. Should it be a little shiny because the oil?
http://tapatalk.com/tapatalk_image....vZC8xNC8wNi8yMS9vcmlnaW5hbC9yYXp5OGFoYS5qcGc=
I can see this image well, maybe your plug looks oily b/c you fogged the engine running?
I'm concerned about this subject b/c you reported the engine is missing occasionally at speed.
Assuming the fuel mixture is correct the color of the insulator is actually caused by the oil film. I would say the first (brown) plug from seadoosource was definitely running XPS-2, it looks just like mine do. Your plugs look like black soot wet with oil, I think if you fogged your engine the plugs would look wet with oil but still brown (brown from using XPS-2).
Black color is carbon soot, which can come from the oil type, or a too cold of plug heat range (proper heat range is hot enough to make the plug self-cleaning) or excess fuel (too rich). A grey porcelain insulator (I think this color contains aluminum) is always warning sign of too lean fuel mixture and often I see this and suspect there was damage from running too lean.
I think I see wet (from oil) and black carbon soot (from incorrect oil type and/or excess fuel) in the photo, so really we shouldn't judge the color of your center porcelain insulators accurately until you begin using the xps-2, we can say it's maybe okay if the color isn't grey and the throttle response is crisp without hesitation(too lean). The missing concerns me though, so I want to know more about the throttle response.
If the soot is just from incorrect oil or maybe too much fuel it's not unusual in a 2-stroke, the oil/fuel soot fouled 2-stroke spark plug is normally considered expendable to save the engine from running too lean, which causes damage. Grey is an early sign there is damage occurring, black is simply soot (carbon soot fouling from cheap oil is avoidable by using XPS-2).
If the black soot continues to deposit it will eventually short the plug with carbon, the brown film is not so electrically conductive as fuel soot(carbon) or soot from cheap oil.
Anyway, remember the plug is expendable, it's better to soot foul than aluminum foul.
I'll be interested to see the color again after you switch to XPS-2.
For torquing the plugs, the purpose is to avoid loss of compression(leaking) and should be done as NGK recommends, more than hand tight is necessary:
http://www.ngk-sparkplugs.jp/english/techinfo/qa/q18/index.html
If you cannot navigate your boat safely, the steering cable is the most likely problem IMO.
Enjoy your weekend, it's all about having a great experience so take it easy!