You get them from ebay or forums like this. The Non-DESS just saves you wiring and getting more keys made since most people sell them with only 1 key. You current keys will work on the new MPEM after you would get them programed to it. Most people opts for the non-DESS since the DESS MPEMs have a factory plug that all the wiries go to just like your boat has now. So if you bought one of those MPEMs you need to get a plug or wire directly to the plug socket which is harder. The non-DESS ones just have wires coming out of it making it easier to wire for retro jobs.