did read on another post that you want the engine running before putting running water into flush port. Don't want to flood engine. May need to get water hose and spray on impeller/pump just to get some lubrication under there.
No, No, NO!!!! Do NOT run a Mercury SportJet without water running!
You have fallen victim to the "Rotax vs. Mercury" water debate. Rotax engines use the sequence "Engine on, water on, water off, engine off" because they are not self-draining.
Your Mercury engine, on the other hand, is 100% completely self draining. You do not need to "blow out" the engine or exhaust system after running the boat. More importantly, you MUST MUST MUST turn on the water first. There is zero chance for problems with the water running and the engine off. You can leave the water running for as long as you like. When you turn it off, the engine will drain automatically.
Note also that you don't have to treat the water cooling system for winter storage, no matter how cold it might get. No antifreeze is necessary (it would just drain right back out anyway!).
I hope I've been clear: NEVER EVER EVER run a SportJet without water running before, during, and after. Also, don't run it above idle except for very brief moments up to 2000 RPM if useful. Water from the hose does not go everywhere that water from the jetdrive does.
Finally, the jetdrive is always engaged. There is no "neutral" in the sense that it disconnects the engine from the jetdrive. If the engine is able to crank, the jetdrive is turning - unless you have completely stripped the bevel gears in the jetdrive.
Lubrication of the jetdrive is handled automatically by connecting and running the water hose. You'll see water pouring out of the jetdrive intake and exhaust, as well as the muffer exhausts.