The driveshaft just floats, and the grease is just to lube the splines. So, when you put grease in the shaft, it will shift toward the pump... but after a minute or two... the pressure from the carbon ring will just push it back into the engine. If you put in too much grease... you will burst the boot. (and make a mess)
There isn't a correct pressure on the seal. If you have an air leak... then your boot, carbon ring, or stainless ring could be bad. Checking the pressure it takes to pull the ring back isn't a good test anyway. The reason is... if the boot is old, or been soaked in gas/oil... the rubber could be hard. SO... it will feel like it takes more pressure to pull it back... but in reality, it's not pushing very hard on the seal since the rubber is "Locked" into position. The only way, to properly test a spring (regardless if it's rubber or steel) is to remove it from the assembly, and check it's free length, and tension at a known compression length.
So... with that that info... do you have a problem? Or is it just for general knowledge?