WOOOTTTT!!!!!! I took your advice and got a stud extractor. I paid for the fast shipping and they didn't send it until now. anyway, I have been spraying the bolts with pb blaster every couple of days. the extractor came on Tuesday, It rained until today (welcome to Halifax!) . I put a small butane torch on the bolts until they smoked. the extractor barely fit on. the space between the side was too tight so I couldn't get the thing all the way on. it kept popping off.
anyway then it shifted a little. I didn't know if the extractor was slipping but I did another little turn and it moved a little more before it popped off again. after a few more tried it came right out!!!! I have both out now. now I just have to figure out how to best clean out the threads. the bolts look like they have oily sand in there
Thanks you all for your help!!!