A place diverter is an expensive fix to porposing, but I bet it works better than some of the reports of people installing trim tabs. John, do you have pictures of your install? Does it drop in just below the nozzle?
The other items are all fixes to common issues seen on the Merc powered boats. I would agree that you may be doing most of these, but probably not until you see the symptoms.
For example: You won't be JB welding your wear ring unless your pump has been abused or taken on quite a bit of sand and rocks. You may not replace the temp sensor until your engine won't start once warmed up, or it is eating gas horribly. Just read through the forums and understand the signs of these very common fixes.
On the flipside, there are some good suggestions to keep you from some costly repairs. Replacing the Hydro-surge grate is something I just did this spring. I didn't like the idea of a broken tine causing damage to my pump and impeller. I also put in the second battery when we added in Tower speakers and an amp. If you have the stocker radio and are happy with it, you may be fine with the cranking battery.
Enjoy the boats, but once you get used to them running great, recognize the signs that would indicate common issues.
Have fun!