Just to clarify in my original post when I referred to 'maintenance' of the carbon seal I simply meant that it is a part that needs to be inspected periodically and replaced when it is worn out. Kind of like tires, not much you can really do to maintain them other than keep them inflated and replace them as necessary.
How to check if the drive shaft seal is working well? If you notice cavitation and have ruled out all other possibilities in the jet pump then there could be a problem with the seal. Some people have installed plastic zip ties onto the rubber bellows to increase pressure on the seal or even coated the mating surface between the stainless ring and the carbon seal with thick grease. After these attempts if the cavitation goes away temporarily, very likely you need to replace the carbon ring and bellows.
Air can leak through the seal under hard acceleration causing cavitation even though there is no water leak. The propulsion system is all about pressure, and it can create quite a vacuum on the drive shaft seal when in operation. While at rest there is no observable pressure so it may not leak.