Mpem.....
If your blowing the 5 amp fuse, then the possiblity of your mpem being bad is very high. Normally, if the mpem is bad, you'll get a series of beeps. I'll see if I can look it up for you. I'll be editing this post if I find more info for you.
O.k......lets go over a couple things. You need to check all your electrical connections really well, especially your ground. Since your able to jump your solenoid, I would think they are o.k. It does seem to be your DESS post. When you put on your DESS lanyard cap and you've got a good charged battery, you should get two beeps. That means all is well, lets go ridin. If you get 8 short beeps, that means your mpem is bad, replace it. If you get 4 long beeps, that means your mpem cannot communicate with your CD-CDI module, it may have a bad fuse or need replacing..etc...that goes into a different direction to another problem. But your not getting anything. Leads me to believe it's your post.
Your test on your PWC is quite easy. Look into where your DESS post plug is. Disconnect it. You should have one Black wire and one wire that is Black with a yellow strip in it. With the cap off, test the two wires with your lead, you should have an open circuit. With the cap on, you should have very close to "0"......let us know what you find out!..........