thank you guys for your responses.
the one thing we did not do was disconnect every ground, clean, and reinstall. we will do that first thing tomorrow.
today the boat developed an intermittent "no start" that seemed to get worse as the day went on. honestly, we spent the better part of the day working on that. did a lot of trouble shooting. we checked all of the fuses we could find in the engine compartment. i replaced 3 or 4 because they had the beginnings of corrosion on them. our first thought was the micro switches on the throttle quadrant. we were able to eliminate those. i took the switch all apart and cleaned it. we checked them for continuity and found they were serviceable. we put it back together with only an occasional start. i jumpered the wiring harness plugs to those mico switches and found that made no difference. with the key installed, there would be little click behind the dash when the shifter is in neutral. the next thing we looked at was the DESS post. i pulled this part off my other boat and found it made no difference. we will check all the grounds tomorrow, but is it possible that there is something wrong with the key?
i guess it really would help if the damn beeper was working to point me in the right direction.