The pee hole is on the stern, usually a brass fitting. Make sure your fitting and hose are not clogged by bug debris. It will cost you a piston.
You may not get pee water on a hose unless you have a LOT of pressure/flow. Water should flow whenever the boat is in the water with the engine running. The higher the RPM, the more flow.
Overheat alarm is a beeper in the helm. By the time you hear it, it may be too late.