answer maybe...
I don't know if you are still looking, but I was able to purchase this relay, the only way is to buy the entire section of harness, includes positive battery connection, solenoid connection, fuses, and that friggin cut off relay. I smoked a couple of store bought relays thinking I nailed it, but the machine then proceeded to show me who is boss. $120 for the harness, took out relay, put in my harness, worked like a champ.
It isn't showed on the parts/microfiche diagram but had dealer call factory to open the bag and ensure it was there and it was.
All only to prove it was a corroded pin in a connector anyways...
Good luck